Merry X-mas

I wish Merry Christmas to all of you. Me and my family enjoyed X-mas watching Aamir Khanz movie Ghagini. My hands can't stop themselves writing that this movie is AWESOME. Its really worth watching. Aamir has really done a very good job. The best part of the movie is the sweet love story between Sanjay(Aamir) and Kalpana (Aasin).I think it will do quite well in box office.
A message to everyone on X-mas:
Christmas is ...
where love is

Love is ...
where God is

God is ..
in all open hearts

ONLY YOU have the key to your heart
only you can open the door for God.

Say YES to LOVE and God shall be there - this very minute and all future .

Indian Idol season 4

I have been watching Indian Idol from the very first day when it was started. This time all the contestants are very talented specially girls. I was having a conception that a girl will become Indian Idol this time. But if anyone of u is watching the episodes , one can easily make out that Indian people are not in favour of a girl becoming Indian Idol. First Ananya and now Sheeni. And of course Bhayia is in the danger zone many times.All these contestants are exceptionally good and despite of there good singing they are voted out. Does that mean that Indian mentality is same as it was earlier ? Or people vote for those who show there pity face in front of audience. But whatever the case may be, this is really bad situation. I hope this should not repeat in the coming days.Still I have little hopes for girls coming up in top 3. My good wishes are with Bhayia,Torsha,Priyanka Nagi and of course Sourabhee.
Good luck!!

Pic gallary during Taj Hotel encounter 28th Dec 2008

Scene at Taj Hotel after encounter by terrorist.

Mumbai attack-2008

The attack in Mumbai attack is very shameful act carried out by Islamic terrorists. It was very well planned and having good financial aid aswell. An attack of this nature cannot be thrown together overnight. It requires planned, scouting, financing, training, and a support network to aid the fighters. The scene on Saturday night inside the Taj Majal hotel was one of unimaginable carnage in the immediate aftermath of the terrorist onslaught across Mumbai.
Lifes of many soldiers , policeman , navy and army officers have gone during the encounter. A Tribute to all of them. God bless there souls and give courage to there family to come out of this deadly dream.

Saas Bahu drama in Indian politics

In the lasta two week there has been a great drama within political parties. Let us take the case of nuclear deal in India. Some parties say yes, others say no and lot many mess. But still our great PM ( I should say he is a great man ) decided to let the party fall but the deal will be signed. He managed to get the N -deal and didn't let his party fall. I hope you can all recall the great drama in parliament those days . It was not less than any saass bahu serial. Opposition parties were acting like saas.This was one great achievement done by congress party .
Another was nano deal. West Bengal govt atleast agreed to get started with work in Singur despite of many obstacles. Lets see what is the next episode in this serial :).
Really these days i am finding new channels more interesting than any other entertainment channel. It is giving good compitition to saas -bahu serials.

Thanks to all those who are putting endless efforts for the development of our counrty. One should not put weapons in politics is something is not being done in the initial phases( as seen in N-deal and Nano car case ). Just try try and try with all hock and croaks. You will succeed one day .....for sure. Only thing u need is dedication and need to know how to play policics.

Nature of Govt employees

This is from my own personal experience that government officials are reluctant to do work. Recently when we got govt residence , we need to do some renovation. The entire work was suppose to be done by govt , but these greedy people want to fetch more money into there pockets by doing the same work privately. Anyways we got the things done privately but still they didn't do the work up to our level of satisfaction.

Once they get the money , they will never pick up your calls or attend you properly.I really had a very bad experience.

I can only say..." Beware of such people."

Are marriages made in Heaven????

Marriages are made in heaven?? Who says so! I really don't know but i think its not the truth of present century. Today we cannot say like that. Its a matter of business and less of love these days. When boys are looking for a life partner they want someone highly educated, highly earning ,very beautiful and most of all a good cook as well. Was this the case in earlier marriages....well i think apart from education and earning rest all goes. So here comes business.....if she earns more than 40,000 per month and boys more than 60,000 per month , then about one lakh per month will be total salary coming to home. And that is the reason most of the guys are inclined towards girls working in MNCs than in any educational institute or any such job.

This was one reason. Another reason is if marriages are really made in heaven , then why boys parents demand for money either directly or indirectly. If the girl is highly educated , she is herself a recurring deposit.. :) . She will bring money home every month. Then why there is huge demands of dowry ( many people don't use this word coz they think it only for the betterment of there child).

Third reason....ok its fine ,let us say that business is settled and girl gets married. Then why it is expected to work day and night both at home aswell as in office. Why can't both boy and girl share there duties when both have same kind of job profile. Then here comes male dominating society.

Though we say we are educated and we can take care of things in better way but the fact is we are all disguising ourselves. But i think that things may change if both boy are girl are willing to do so. They can really make one feel that 'Yes, marriages are really made in heaven and its really beautiful to live a happily married life. '

Good luck to all those who are bachelors!!!

Is Delhi really becoming better????

Whenever i start from home i always pray to God for no congestion on roads . No doubt govt has plans to make city better before commonwealth games start but there plans are running short of time. And the consequences have to be suffered by common people like us. Yesterday when i was going back home i saw they construction authorities have preoccupied the entire road and there was huge traffic on the road. To cover up a distance of few kilometers only we were blocked in traffic for more than three hours. This is not only my story but story of every person who travel from Delhi to Gurgaon or to Noida or even within Delhi. Even the condition of roads are pathetic. During monsoon there was water more than one feet on the road. Is this the Capital of India. Really feel sad about it. Will something happen if u complain about it. Like if we take the example of flyover work , why don't govt hire workers in shift so that the entire work is completed within 3-4 months. Why it take more than one year to get everything done and harassing the public.

Sometimes I feel that we are paying huge amount of tax to govt for all there reasons.

Will this condition change ever ??

Waiting for Delhi to become better!!!!

Drink Cofee for sharp memory

Do u know that drinking coffee can improve memory if you are female above 60 year of age. It is also good for other factors as well like memory weakness, disability, depression, cardiovascular disease and other chronic illness.
It is because caffeine is a psycho stimulant which appears to reduce cognitive decline in women.The good thing is it is required in very small amount for a beneficial effects.
So isn't it good news for all the coffee loves like me. So anytime you can move in to Barista or Caffee coffee day bcoz "A lot can happen over a cup of coffee"

ZERO game

You know zero has meaning these days.The more zeros we have in our salary slip , we become more big. So it does not matter how much zeros we get in our exams.....only thing that matters is to have more zeros in life .......To all students who are under the pressure of there parents to get good marks need not worry more , because these things hardly effect your next coming life. This is from my own personal experience

Increase in number of IITs and IIMs

Yesterday i went to one of my family friendz place. Her niece has passed class 12th exam and she was just wondering about her future. Then we started our discussion on increase in number of IITs and IIMs in India. None of us was in favour of it.We were thinking that instead of increasing the number of engineering colleges and increasing the reservation seats aswell, government should increase primary and secondary schools in India.

Today if we look at the condition of government schools, its really pathetic. We need to improve the standard of primary education both quality and quantity wise instead of increasing the quantity in graduation level and bringing quality level down. Where will they find good faculty and good infrastructure with all facilities ??? Its a big question indeed !! On one side government is not paying there ex-employees saying they are running short of money and on the other hand just for the sake of political issues they are bringing down the level of such prestigious institutes.

Anyways , it has been decided and will be implemented soon........but if u take my opinion , its not at all a good thing to happen ?? Do you agree with me??

Health Hazards of Mobile phones

• Hand held cellular telephones, using pulse modulated signals of frequency 870-995 MHz, are being used increasingly. Most reports of health symptoms related to use of these phones are anecdotal.
• People should avoid using Wi-Fi wherever possible because of the risks it may pose to health, the environmnent ministry of the German government said in september 2007.
  Wi-fi networks operate in the 2.4 and 5 GHz microwave bands, that is the same order of magnitude as GSM mobile phone microwaves (0,9-1,8 GHz) and the latest mobile brand G3 (1,9-2 GHz and 2,1-2,2 GHz). Higher frequencies are known to be more harmful.
• Men who carry mobile phones in their trouser pockets may be at risk of damaging their sperm count, according to research by Hungarian scientists.
• Science has proved that your mobile acts like a microwave transmitter bearing a cancer warning! Energy at millions to billions of cycles per second can do you more harm than good – it has been reported that these frequencies cause cancer and several other diseases by intercepting in your body the nodes with cellular DNA and its repair mechanisms. This in turn promotes cell aging.

These are just few effects. There are many more. So have short talks and limited use.

Toddler molestation

There is nothing new in hearing that a girls are molested by a security guard of the school or by school bus driver or peon. Once again when i was going through todays new paper i found such case where a 6 year old school girl was allegedly molested by bus driver on her return in school Bus. She was all tired and family thought that she didn't had her breakfast but when they noticed her torn clothes and nail marks on her legs they were all shocked and raised a complaint in police station.

But do u think that girls in our society are really safe. Specially the age between 4-10 years when they are really very innocent to understand the nasty brain of indian man. One think i found that mostly men above the age of 45-60 are involved in such crimes. WHY WHY WHY ???? What is our government doing about all such things. Now i think among other duties , one duty has been added to drop and pick your child own your own if you really care for your daughterz security .

To whom we should blame ??? This is happening everywhere in India...let it be Delhi , Hyderabad or any small town......

Plzz don't play with the innocence of child....I pray to God to give good thoughts and intellectual mind to every human being to know the difference between good and bad. And just to satisfy there urge for sex ( that is just your state of mind ) don't spoil the future of our nation.

My childz first book

My daughter was 2 year old and i purchased her a word book. On first look it seems to be a good book but when i started asking my daughter what the pics resemble like .....i was completely shocked. Apart from 2 or 3 pics no other pics resemble the word they mentioned. Like glasses resemble balloon , Boat resemble 3 triangles placed one above the other many such things....Aahh its my advice to all parents to see pics carefully before purchasing any book for there child so that it should not leave a wrong image on your childz mind.

My love to all kids :)

Aarushi Murder Case

Sometimes what we see is not actually what happens in reality......yeah this is true and this is what i feel about arushi murder case. So many investigating teams: CBI, Police, media is involved but still nothing has come out of it.

I don't know whether Krishna is murderer or not but somewhere i feel that there is something fishy going on ......Aahh i really feel pitty about all this and believe the poor guy is just a scapegoat.

May God Bless the little and hope that we would come to learn about what happened actually in near future and this won't become just another case that gets queued up in never ending back log of our judicial system.