Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Are marriages made in Heaven????

Marriages are made in heaven?? Who says so! I really don't know but i think its not the truth of present century. Today we cannot say like that. Its a matter of business and less of love these days. When boys are looking for a life partner they want someone highly educated, highly earning ,very beautiful and most of all a good cook as well. Was this the case in earlier marriages....well i think apart from education and earning rest all goes. So here comes business.....if she earns more than 40,000 per month and boys more than 60,000 per month , then about one lakh per month will be total salary coming to home. And that is the reason most of the guys are inclined towards girls working in MNCs than in any educational institute or any such job.
This was one reason. Another reason is if marriages are really made in heaven , then why boys parents demand for money either directly or indirectly. If the girl is highly educated , she is herself a recurring deposit.. :) . She will bring money home every month. Then why there is huge demands of dowry ( many people don't use this word coz they think it only for the betterment of there child).
Third reason....ok its fine ,let us say that business is settled and girl gets married. Then why it is expected to work day and night both at home aswell as in office. Why can't both boy and girl share there duties when both have same kind of job profile. Then here comes male dominating society.
Though we say we are educated and we can take care of things in better way but the fact is we are all disguising ourselves. But i think that things may change if both boy are girl are willing to do so. They can really make one feel that 'Yes, marriages are really made in heaven and its really beautiful to live a happily married life. '
Good luck to all those who are bachelors!!!

Is Delhi really becoming better????

Whenever i start from home i always pray to God for no congestion on roads . No doubt govt has plans to make city better before commonwealth games start but there plans are running short of time. And the consequences have to be suffered by common people like us. Yesterday when i was going back home i saw they construction authorities have preoccupied the entire road and there was huge traffic on the road. To cover up a distance of few kilometers only we were blocked in traffic for more than three hours. This is not only my story but story of every person who travel from Delhi to Gurgaon or to Noida or even within Delhi. Even the condition of roads are pathetic. During monsoon there was water more than one feet on the road. Is this the Capital of India. Really feel sad about it. Will something happen if u complain about it. Like if we take the example of flyover work , why don't govt hire workers in shift so that the entire work is completed within 3-4 months. Why it take more than one year to get everything done and harassing the public.

Sometimes I feel that we are paying huge amount of tax to govt for all there reasons.

Will this condition change ever ??

Waiting for Delhi to become better!!!!