Marriages are made in heaven?? Who says so! I really don't know but i think its not the truth of present century. Today we cannot say like that. Its a matter of business and less of love these days. When boys are looking for a life partner they want someone highly educated, highly earning ,very beautiful and most of all a good cook as well. Was this the case in earlier marriages....well i think apart from education and earning rest all goes. So here comes business.....if she earns more than 40,000 per month and boys more than 60,000 per month , then about one lakh per month will be total salary coming to home. And that is the reason most of the guys are inclined towards girls working in MNCs than in any educational institute or any such job.
This was one reason. Another reason is if marriages are really made in heaven , then why boys parents demand for money either directly or indirectly. If the girl is highly educated , she is herself a recurring deposit.. :) . She will bring money home every month. Then why there is huge demands of dowry ( many people don't use this word coz they think it only for the betterment of there child).
Third reason....ok its fine ,let us say that business is settled and girl gets married. Then why it is expected to work day and night both at home aswell as in office. Why can't both boy and girl share there duties when both have same kind of job profile. Then here comes male dominating society.
Though we say we are educated and we can take care of things in better way but the fact is we are all disguising ourselves. But i think that things may change if both boy are girl are willing to do so. They can really make one feel that 'Yes, marriages are really made in heaven and its really beautiful to live a happily married life. '
Good luck to all those who are bachelors!!!